Recently heard lots about Nigel and Yishun..
Although i dun really know much, and can only stand by as a friend....I still have my words for you two... Listen carefully kay~
When people have a problem with you, there is SURELY a problem with you. Its up to yourself to be alert, reflect upon yourself, what in e world is wrong with you... IF u feel that theres nothing wrong with youself, then there is SURELY something wrong already.
So if you are really in a heimongmong situation, and have the burning desire to find out wads wrong with yourself... look for your cliques, your classmates for help. Being by yourside, im sure, if theres something really wrong with you, they can confirm + gurantee 100% point out straight to you the roots.
So whats next? Change yourself dah~ you are not erm.. a Super human. A personality which has been sticking onto you for years isn't able to change into another one in just a fortnights time. Time has always been the deciding factor for alot of things, and it was the reason why i was late for Isp. [nah, sleep was the factor then =D]
So how? List out the flaws that people point out to you. Accept them, and not deny them and wadsoeva. Its better to change now before its TOO LATE. Allocate space beside the flaws, give yourself an aim. How much do you wanna change. E.g: I talk for 50/60 mins in class. too talkative [I shall reduce my efforts spent on talking by 15mins, eventually, know when to talk, and when not to]
Feasible aim. not godlike aim. Short-term; Long-term. This can really help out in pacing your own change.
Next, take a look at your surroundings. If 1 person dislikes you, that his/her prob. But if a whole handful of people starts to turn their back against you, you should be happy, ironically. Why? It serves as a reminder of what you have done, what you should really had done then.. Of course i dun mean that erm, tis guy punched me in de face, the police did not put him under arrest warrant. Damn#$%#$^ i shulda returned back or sumthing like dat.
Things worth reflecting on___________
Are your actions immature? On purpose/your inborn character
Are your words[tone/language etc.] offensive? On purpose/ inborn
What type of impression do you think people make out of you?
Are what you are doing suited to your surroudings? Adjustments?
Are the contents of your jokes funny? ** impt!! cause i buay tahan lame jokes n so do others**
What do you think are your good points and bad points? [Good points are impt!! Keep them within you]
Have you ever used the word SORRY before when you offended someone?
These are my 2 cents worth kay~ It doesn't matter when a bunch of 10 turns on you, at least dun make it a 100 yet, even if its a 100, it doesn't mean that the world has turned against you.
Pocket ur plus, dump ur minus. Keep ur unique, nice self. =D
Hero-Mariah Carey
There's a hero
If you look inside your heart
You don't have to be afraid
Of what you are
There's an answer
If you reach into your soul
And the sorrow that you know
Will melt away
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
It's a long road
When you face the world alone
No one reaches out a hand
For you to hold
You can find love
If you search within yourself
And the emptiness you felt
Will disappear
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
Lord knows
Dreams are hard to follow
But don't let anyone
Tear them away
Hold on
There will be tomorrow
In time
You'll find the way
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
Dats all peeps~ =)
